2. “I’m so into black women” or “I’ve never dated a black girl before!”
Umm… and you never will with that approach. Don’t get me wrong, it’s okay to admire someone based on their personal qualities, but fetishizing them is the last thing you want to do if you’re trying to win some hearts.
Why would “I’m so into black women” be an instant panty dropper? I am not the only one to say that attraction is subjective, and that it goes beyond ethnicity, gender,and religion. If your first words are “I’m into [insert race] ”, it basically feels like you’re auctioning off an interracial experience.